The struggle is real

The caterpillar does all the work but the butterfly receives all the publicity. ~ Unknown

I’ve been fascinated by the butterfly lately (or the flutter-by as I used to refer to it when My Three Sons were little).

Maybe you have heard the story of the young man who found a cocoon and sat down to watch the butterfly emerge. He could see the creature through the thin, silk-like material of the shell trying to break free, but to the young man it seemed as if it was taking too long. The butterfly had worked and worked and didn’t seem to be making much progress, even after a couple of hours. He decided to help it along and took out his Eagle Scout pocket knife with scissors (talk about being prepared) and cut an opening for the struggling insect. Immediately the butterfly hobbles out but his wings were wet and his body was swollen. The young man thought that with a little time the swelling would go down, the wings would dry and he would fly off like any other butterfly.

But he never did.

He spent the rest of his pitiful life in that shape for one reason: He needed to go through the struggle! Even though it seemed as if the butterfly was not making any progress he was slowly getting rid of the liquid in his body. A caterpillar turns to all liquid before it morphs into a butterfly! During the struggle to exit the cocoon it gets rid of that fluid, and while fighting to get freem it becomes strong and ready to fly.

Look at the changes and the complexity of the life of a butterfly BEFORE it is even born:

  • The eggs are laid on plants that the caterpillars will actually eat later. The size of a pinhead, each egg contains one caterpillar.
  • Next, the larva or caterpillar emerges and begins to eat immediately. That is all this interesting creature does: eat! But while it is eating its skin gets tighter and then it will shed that skin and emerge with new skin. They change skin four times! When this hairy guy is finished growing it is about two inches long.
  • Then it begins the Chrysalis or Metamorphosis which takes 7-10 days. It will find a safe place to rest and a silk thread will come out of a hole below its mouth from where it will spin a silk pad to attach to. She will hang from this pad and its skin will eventually split open revealing the chrysalis or pupa.
  • The coolest things are going on inside the chrysalis: it is becoming completely liquid to transform into a butterfly. The struggle begins as it pushes against that case opening and begins to fight its way out.
  • Did you know that the life span of a Painted Lady Butterfly is only two weeks? Some can live up to a month and a few species survive up to a year. But most have a short life span. In that time period it is busy. It has one goal and that is to lay its eggs so that the cycle can be repeated all over again.

A butterfly coming out of its cocoon gains its strength, determination and fortitude all in the struggle! The butterfly pushes all the fluid out of its body and into its wings enabling it to fly. Without the struggle, he would never get off the ground and would come out with a swollen body and wet wings. He would hobble around like that for the rest of his short life. And the beauty of this insect? Unsurpassed and marveled by all!

And there we are.
The struggle is real butterfly

The struggle is real. Struggling through our days, weeks and years thinking we are making no progress, everything is just HARD!  But we don’t realize that the struggles purify us, make us strong and give us wisdom and sensitivity to others around us. Tried in the fire, we burst forth as the beautiful creature God intends and touch others around us who are watching us through our struggle.

A friend said that God calls us to do hard things sometimes but always has prepared the way before us.

Sometimes we are like the butterfly inside the cocoon but WE have the scissors and want to hurry the struggle along ourselves. We think we don’t need to go through a difficulty or what we would call a trial because we have done this before, been through this situation and we know how to handle it.

How can that be? Look at a few of these words from the Word of God:

Romans 5:3-5. “Not only that, but we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering  produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love  has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.”

Rejoice in our sufferings, our struggles. Why? Because that struggle is producing something inside of us that is beautiful, defines our character and gives us hope. They make us strong and full of wisdom, knowing that whatever we face, God is with us, and in the process, He is molding us and making us into vessels fit for the Kingdom.

Is there more?

Yes! Romans 8:18. “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us.”

 And in James 1:12:  “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.”

We may struggle here, we might even feel like we are trapped in our cocoons forever and that God doesn’t hear us or doesn’t care. But we must be patient and determine to see what He wants us to learn in the struggle, in the difficulty, in the PUSH.

Friends, we trust Him even in the struggle. He will fulfill all of His promises if we work through the difficulties, trusting in His Word.

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16 thoughts on “The struggle is real

  1. Sharita Knobloch

    Oh Nannette– yes! The struggle is real AND necessary. I know that so many hard time have been just that– hard. But in hindsight, it makes me spiritually strong, highlighting my need for Jesus.

    Thanks for this.

  2. Nannette Post author

    I have never done that Dawn, what fun! So educational. Struggles are real but worth it. Thank you for visiting. ♥

  3. Dawn

    My children and I used to go out and look for Monarch Butterfly eggs on the milkweed each summer and then bring them home to watch the cycle of change. We were fascinated every single time and releasing the butterflies when they finally hatched was so much fun, even a little bittersweet.

    I love that you detailed this process so we could ‘see’ the struggle’s worth. A Great Lesson to remember on those days when we feel we are struggling against the wind.
    Blessings,
    Dawn

  4. Nannette Post author

    Beauty to come! Love that. Thank you Joanne!

  5. Nannette Post author

    Bless your heart, you made me smile too. It does take time and patience, God has better plans 🙂 I enjoyed your Dance in the Rain post!! Blessings to you!

  6. Nannette Post author

    So true Hazel. Get up, stand up and step up…love it! And a good bath in the living water, all of your points are so good today. Thank you!

  7. Nannette Post author

    Thank you Cheryl…love that phrase “God will bring us through if we can stand the pull.” That’s so true! No matter what we go through He is still with us.♥

  8. Nannette Post author

    Why thank you friend! I meant to message you that I passed a shop in a small town with the name Cabbages and Kings over its door! How about that? ♥

  9. joanneviola

    Nannette, like you, I have often been intrigued with caterpillars & butterflies. I remember when I first learned that if the struggle of emerging from its cocoon is removed, the butterfly will die. There is a strength & beauty which comes due to the struggle. And today, you beautifully reminded me this is true for us as well. May we lean on Him in the midst of the struggle knowing there is beauty to come! XO

  10. Crystal Storms

    Nannette, today I felt as I was in science class discovering the workings of a butterfly … love it! What wonderful lessons are drawn from the struggle of a caterpillar to the struggles we face, struggles that make us stronger and turn us into vessels fit for the Kingdom. Thank you, Nannette, for sharing your knowledge and your heart at #IntentionalTuesday on Intentionally Pursuing. : )

  11. Brenda

    Beautifully written, Nannette.
    Having that perspective makes all the difference sometimes. (All the time?)
    Visiting you for the first time today through the Intentional Tuesday linkup. 🙂
    I love the beautiful signature you have on your post. 🙂
    ~ Best to you ~

  12. Lux

    I’m just clapping my hands here for this is sooo beautiful and true!

    Or maybe because I feel the struggle of the caterpillar for I am still in that stage. Life can be pretty discouraging when all your efforts seem to be not paying at all. So good to remember that it takes time to make things beautiful. And God has better plans. 🙂

  13. Hazel Moon

    You may have heard it said, there is NO TESTimony with out a TEST. I am so thankful that God is there with us in the struggles. Our Pastor has been preaching to our church to get up – stand up – and step up. So many fall down and stay in the mud of life, when they need a good bath in the living water and keep that robe of righteousness tight around their spiritual body.
    Good preaching Nannette and thanks for sharing with us here at Tell me a Story.

  14. Cheryl Smith

    Oh, I needed this reminder! Thank you so much for sharing what God placed upon your heart. A dear friend of ours often says, “God will bring us through, if we can stand the pull.” I think of that a lot. He is surely testing our endurance and allowing His people to be tried. But, He is a faithful God Who will never leave or forsake us. Much love to you, sweet friend. 🙂 Keep encouraged.

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