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Wife to The Sweetheart, Mom to the Fantastic Six, Nana to six of the cutest littles on the planet, Author, The Daniel Fast, A Devotional. UPCI ministers.

What if it isn’t a Happy Mother’s Day?

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Mother’s Day weekend is a time of gathering, celebrating and loving on those in this world who give so very much. But for some it is one of the most difficult times of the year.

If you have lost your mother, if she has fought a good fight and reached her reward, your heart is grieving, broken. My prayer is that God will send a forgotten memory to you and love you through that sweet reminder of your mother this weekend. It is okay to grieve and it is healing to sit down and have a good cry! Relive the good times and find joy in the blessings that your mother brought to your life.

If you do anything this Sunday, take time to sit and REMEMBER. Remember how blessed you were by your mother and the way she shaped your life. Her influence lives on in you and you will pass so much of her on to your own children.

May you be comforted by all the great things she was to you and your family and rejoice that you will be reunited one day!

For those with a Momma’s heart but nothing to fill it yet…I have not walked in your shoes and cannot imagine the pain. I have walked it alongside my sweet daughter-in-law and son and remember every year that Mother’s Day would roll around how very difficult it was for her to even go to church on that otherwise happy day. Most services are not happening in churches around the country this Mother’s Day but a few are having their first service this weekend. If you choose to go to Mother’s Day service, I pray our Good Father wraps His arms around you and helps you to find an unexpected joy in a pew. Sometimes reaching out to others that are hurting is so very healing for your own soul. By serving, by giving, God will bless and cheer up your own hurting heart.

And if you choose NOT to go, or maybe not to watch, if the pain is just too much, He understands your hurt and can comfort you wherever you are. But do your best to not hide on this painful day but find joy in blessing another. I have friends that would avoid that day at church and I truly understand it is just too difficult for some who have lost so much or not been blessed with their hearts desire. Jesus truly knows your hurt and it’s OK. You do YOU. ♥

May God encourage you with His great love that He knows right where you are and although His timing is perfect, it is rarely ours. He hasn’t forgotten you and will continue to weave your great story in His kingdom.

My heart truly breaks for the mother who has lost a child today. No matter how old or how young they were, you should never have to bury your own child. We all know families that have suffered this great tragedy, only God knows the answer and truly, only God can heal their heart.

If this is you today, I am praying our great God wraps His arms around you and gives you comfort through your memories and the love of those close to you. He is able to literally carry you through this trial and even though the grief, the heartache and the longing will always be there in some fashion, He will help you bear it, He will help you carry on.

Do you know someone that has lost a child? Will you see them this weekend? Just say,  “I love you.” “I’m praying for you.” Or just say nothing at all, that hug, that squeeze of the hand, that arm around the shoulder lets them know you have not forgotten, no matter how long it has been. (Of course, social distancing has to be considered so make sure you respect others.)

To write a post from this perspective when your mother is still living and you have three grown children might seem as if I just don’t know what I am talking about and do not understand heartache and loss. I may not have walked the road, friend, but God can give compassion for us to love on those that are broken. He can help us understand and empathize with those that are suffering loss or have not experienced the joy of motherhood yet. My heart truly goes out to those who are hurting today.

We are called to be the church and encourage those that are broken, to walk this road TOGETHER.

So, if you find yourself sitting near a shattered heart today, whether in church or at the dinner table, be a comforter, a doer, a friend. Words are not even necessary if that is your struggle! Just let them know you care and if their heart is hurting, so is yours.

Jesus will send them strength today and it just might be through you.

God wants us to love on those around us, whether our heart is full or aching. The best way to fill that longing is to give, love and serve. Love like Jesus and He will fill your heart to overflowing on Mother’s Day and every day after. My love and prayers to you all.

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” Proverbs 31:30

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How are YOU doing in this storm?

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Guest writer today! My forever friend and sister-in-law, Sue Elkins, has an encouraging word from the Lord! Be blessed.

In times like these, we need a Savior
In times like these, we need an anchor
Be very sure, Be very sure
Your Anchor Holds and Grips the Solid Rock

This Rock is Jesus, Yes He’s the one
This Rock is Jesus, the only one
Be very sure, Be very sure
Your Anchor holds and Grips the Solid Rock

How many times have we read about the bondage of the Israelites in Egypt or thought about the trials of Job? We never thought anything close to that could ever come to our world. Who would have imagined, in this day and age, that a plague could hit not just the United States, but our WHOLE WORLD!

Now, many of us have either lost loved ones, friends or acquaintances or we know someone who has.  It is just unfathomable that we have been closed up in our homes now for months with more still to come.  No family gatherings, no going out to dinner, no friends over for parties, and NO CHURCH!  

For many of us, weekly church has been our lifeline for years.  It was where we received our strength.  We were closer to that church family than we are to some of our own family.  They encouraged us, we worshiped together, we laughed and cried together through many things and now they are GONE! What will we do?  Perhaps that question is exactly what God wants us to ask ourselves:

What will I do?  

Have we become too dependent on others for our relationship with Jesus? 

Can we stand alone in the midst of a storm if we have to? 

Do we feel strong in our prayer life and studying of God’s word that we can feed ourselves?

“Though I walk in the midst of trouble, thou wilt revive me; thou shalt stretch forth thine hand against the wrath of mine enemies, and thy right hand shall save me.” Psalm 138:7

Some of us have been preparing ourselves for years for storms we didn’t know would come or how they would come. 

So…

How are YOU doing in this storm?

I have always tried to have daily devotions and time with Jesus, but I must confess that I haven’t always understood how IMPORTANT that time was.  These past few months have truly awakened me to how much I need to pay attention when I am in His presence.

I need to listen, so He can talk.
I need the strength, guidance and wisdom from His word.
I need this time with Jesus so much now, but really haven’t I always? 

The enemy would like to take this difficult time and destroy our faith, our foundation, and our relationships; but if we lean upon the power, the Right Hand of God, to sustain us during this time, we will come out victorious!! 

“The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him, and I am helped:  therefore my heart greatly rejoiceth; and with my song will I praise him.”  Psalm 28:7

I’ve always loved to sing.  A catchy tune can be in my head for days.  I would find myself singing stupid little songs while cooking, cleaning, walking on the treadmill, but some of those catchy little tunes weren’t for any good edification. 

I stopped listening to anything but Christian music in my car years ago because I didn’t want those lyrics in my head; but sometimes tunes from way back just drop in your mind and you are singing them without thinking:

“All my ex’s live in Texas”
“She wore an itsy, bitsy, teeny, weeny, yellow polka dot bikini”
“Soup and sandwich, soup and sandwich, go together like a horse and carriage”

Where does this stuff come from?  Well, what is our mind tuned to?

Of late, I have found myself singing songs of Zion, tunes of refreshment to my soul! 

“Because He Lives, I can face tomorrow”
“I know the Peace Speaker, I know Him by name”
“When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to The Rock”
“Waymaker, Miracle Worker, Promise Keeper, Light in the Darkness”

Is that because my mind is focused on something more than this life, but eternal life?  The Lord is my strength and I have always trusted in Him.  He has been there so many times for me, why would I doubt that He will be there for me now?  He is leading, has always been leading, and my heart must trust in that and rejoice!

“They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk and not faint.”  Isaiah 40:31

Waiting is so hard.  Israel waited for deliverance from Egypt, Job waited for his troubles to pass, we can wait…..and while we are waiting He will RENEW our strength!  

We will build up our faith.
We will worship together via our online services.
We will encourage each other by social media.
We will sing songs of Zion in our homes.
We will pray more, read more and then we will….
MOUNT UP WITH WINGS AS EAGLES as we join together once more in our places of worship and we will not grow weary and we will not faint!  

We will stand stronger against the enemy. Lord, let us not forget this time and fall back into our old routines.  You have brought us out of the wilderness, PLEASE do not let us forget!!!

“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.  Cast me not away from thy presence; and take not thy holy spirit from me.  Restore unto me the joy of the salvation; and uphold me with thy free spirit.  Then will I teach transgressors thy ways; and sinners shall be converted unto thee.”  Psalm 51:10-13

Create, renew, restore, uphold……O God, let me cleanse my heart so that You can renew that right spirit.  Let Your presence and spirit restore in me the joy of Your ways and uphold me in the Holy Ghost, which was so freely given to me, that I may teach and reach those who are weak and those who have never known Your precious love!

REVIVAL is coming….first to us as individuals, then to the Church as a whole.  Be ready.  Be prepared. Be a part of it all.
God Bless You All and Let’s Have Revival!



Sue Elkins is a former pastor’s wife, mother and super proud grandmother of four. Recently retired from 35+ years in real estate, she spends her days, before quarantine, burning up the highways to visit Roarke, Everly, Miller and Avery Kate and never passes up a road trip with her best friend and husband, Dexter.

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Hanging on His every Word…

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Continuing with Holy Week Remembrances today! I would love to hear YOUR memories of Easter. Feel free to share! You can read Palm Sunday’s post here. Be blessed.

I can remember so many Easter Sunday mornings when I was a little girl. My sister and I loved to dress up! My mother or aunt always did our hair in long banana curls the night before. (Think Shirley Temple…or Nellie Olsen). We were all decked out in our little 1960’s white hats, white knee socks and white patent leather shoes. We were adorable. (Unfortunately I couldn’t get my hands on an actual Easter picture for this post. Boo.)

When I was very young, I was privileged to go to church with my cousins. Four sisters. Yes, four! They had one each in similar age as my sister and me, and two more for good measure. I loved them so! I can remember hunting for Easter eggs at the church and my grandmother’s house.

We would sit in church and listen to their father preach, everyone was hanging on his every word…some because they knew he was the only thing that was standing between them and a great Sunday dinner. Others were anticipating the big Easter egg hunt and as much candy as they could stuff in their mouths at one time.

Yet, we all knew Easter was about so much more than bunnies, colored eggs, candy and Easter baskets.

It was about Someone Else whose Words were so impactful that men dropped everything they were doing to sit at His feet.

It was about Someone Else whose Words were so powerful that He emptied a temple.

Jesus had just entered Jerusalem where the crowds shouted, “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord!”

The next day He saw the money changers and sellers in the temple, desecrating the house of God.

“And Jesus entered the temple and drove out all who sold and bought in the temple, and he overturned the tables of the money-changers and the seats of those who sold pigeons. He said to them, “It is written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer,’ but you make it a den of robbers.” Matthew 21:12, 13 ESV.

He emptied the house. But it didn’t stay empty.

“And he was teaching daily in the temple. The chief priests and the scribes and the principal men of the people were seeking to destroy him, but they did not find anything they could do, for all the people were hanging on his words.” Luke 19:45-48 ESV.

Here are those that wanted to destroy Jesus, the Teacher. But they cannot do anything about it because the people were hanging on His words! They wouldn’t leave, they were at His feet, waiting to hear the Good News.

The King James Version says it this way, “And could not find what they might do: for all the people were very attentive to hear him.”

Are we listening for His voice today? Do we cherish the Word of God? Do we look forward to being with Him, sitting quietly in His presence and soaking up the Bread of Life?

“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me: And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” John 10:27, 28.

Come Resurrection Morning, no matter whether you are wearing your white hat and patent leather shoes or your best jeans and t-shirt, listen for His voice.

And may you find yourself hanging on His every Word.

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